Saturday, June 25, 2005

Bah-Bee-Qew

smiley BBQ  smiley BBQ

I think we can all go part-time be satay sellers! Look how bright and nicely the flames burn!


Yeah! Finally, the long-awaited BBQ! Sorry hor, this one only for ERC Committee and Sports Conveners + captains hor.

Actually, suppose to start fire at 5.30pm but you know lah… BBQ sometimes is like Chinese wedding dinner lidat… everybody rubber timing… So hor… we oni started the fire around 7+… *Oops* BLUSH3.GIF Hahaha… Eh… Though we started late but the fire set up was done pretty well and in a jiffy too ok! (Refer to the above pic) Hehehe… pic05996

 

Left to Right: Seng Guan, Kerwin, Chee Yee, Elaine, Jason, Steph and Mel (sitting on Steph’s lap)

Some of us are just somehow, much more excited than the rest… Folks like Bro Seng Guan, Jason, Elaine and Chee Yee came right on the dot 5.30pm man! But Jason a bit smarter… ‘Cuz he went roller-blading while the other 3 “sit around” lor! laughroll Hahaha… Urhm, Steph and me reached around 6.30pm. We took the wrong bus some more! Went for a joy-ride around Pasir Ris estate! laughroll Lucky the bus passed by a stop that is nearer to our destination. Sorry lah, Steph, I don’t mix Pasir Ris leh… *Oops* BLUSH3.GIF

 

Left to Right: Kerwin and Seng Guan (& Steph a bit “hidden” somewhere! Hahaha…)

Ok folks, don’t be fooled by Kerwin! He’s not the real “Firestarter”. The real ones are Steph, Elaine and I think Chee Yee and Seng Guan oso got a share to dirty their hands. Ya, Kerwin is just “maintaining’ it till the food comes. L-O-L Speaking of that, anyone called our Chairman about the food yet? It’s not here yet leh! bigeyes Hahaha…

 

Wah lao eh… The moon is coming out soon and the food not here yet… We almost finished the charcoals already leh… Anyone mind having a “Drinks BBQ”!?! spineyes Jason and Mel fully expressed our sentiments, especially Jason! LOL Hahaha… *Sob*

 Ok lah! Since the food is not here let’s find something to do! You take me, I take you taking me! L-O-L Hahaha…

Come, let’s take group photo.  Wah lao, not like this!? L-O-L Hahaha…

(Left to Right: Chee Yee, Elaine, Steph & Mel)

 wHeRe Is ThE fOoD!?!?!?!!! bigeyes

Woo hoo! smiley phewFinally, the food was here at what seemed like 8+pm. Who cares about the exact time, it’s BBQ time and most of all, MAKAN TIME!!!

I think Steph will be having more interesting things mentioned in her blog. May be I’ll ask her about it when I see her tomorrow. LOL

Special thanks to Chairman Bee Hoon, Nichelle, Rachel, Ng Ming and Pak Kiong for the BBQ preparations. pic05996

Pictures not taken to be used for ransom are folks like Bee Hoon, Nichelle, Rachel, Ng Ming and Pak Kiong, and also Hsiao Yun, Crsytal, Althea, Chin Chai, Hui Peng and Vincent. LOL

By the way, no chicken wings were harmed during the picture-taking of this BBQ (They got eaten after that)! Oh! And not forgetting the nice stingray with the super-dooper spicy blacan chilli, the otah, the squid, the satay, the Taiwan sausages, the Japanese toufu, the…. laughroll Hehehe…

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Thursday, June 23, 2005

A Tribute to Mum

 Left to right: “Multiple-layer Kueh”, “Kueh Dada”, “Coconut-covered Tapioca Kueh” (Actually, I have no idea!) L-O-L

So small a token, so great an impact. To many others, this may not be some great deal. It was not a big deal to me too in the past. In fact, to harbor the thought that it is more hassle than T.L.C. was what I thought. But this morning, it was a different feeling. Thank you, Mummy! Then again, I shall teach her how to get to my blog so that she can read this! spineyes


I heard the keys, followed by the familiar shuffling of the slippers. Without much thought, I assume Mum brought Mr Ben downstairs for his regular regime and continued with my rountine preparation for work in my room. Running late again for the 2nd day in a row. LOL

Not long, sounds of the keys and gate rung again. Seconds later, Mum knocked on my door and told me she hung this bag of munch by the gate, so that I would not forget. She had gone downstairs just to buy it for me. I felt very touched and at the same time, ashamed. Normally, I would tell her it’s not necessary to prepare breakfast for me, especially if it’s gonna take her the effort to go to the kopitiam downstairs to get it. There were days she had really bad aches, and all these “extras” I can do without. After all, I’ve gotten pretty used to skipping breakfast. spineyes 

flow6a4“Guess it all started the evening before yesterday…”flow6a4

I was preparing some reports and slides for my boss. It was about 0430hrs when she woke up and shocked to see me still struggling with the lappy. In actual fact, I didn’t get much sleep. My boss’ deadline to me was in fact, that nite itself, as he in turn, has the deadline fixed the next morning on the same subject matter. We were both kinda thrown off-guard as we both received the deadline at very short notice from The Management. cry3

flow6a4“Disastrous 1st meeting…”flow6a4

At our 1st internal discussion some time back, I had a hard time presenting the stuff to my boss and my boss’ boss. This is largely due to the fact that I felt kinda bleek about what was actually considered a fair and accurate reflection of the financial figures. “If only I had more time” was what I felt then. From that meeting, I have gathered just about enough grasp to do a better job. I told myself that it will be better the next round, and I would not complicate my team member, Charmaine, with my shallow focus. Somehow, I sorta blame myself that Charmaine and the little life breeding in her tummy had to suffer the late nite with me during the 1st preparation. Charmaine, if you’re reading this, thanks for your help and I’m very sorry about the late nite. cry3 Anyway, now it’s THE TIME.

flow6a4“Do a better one this time, Fer”flow6a4

It was a nite of battle against the extrapolating of the numbers, a self-battle against tiredness, and most of all, a battle against time itself. By near 0330hrs, dinner has already been depleted in my stomach. So, its a battle against hunger as well! Wah lao eh… LOL

By the time I got it done and sent, it was already 0530hrs! smiley phewBroken my own record of 0400hrs previously! L-O-L Is it a better job this time? I dunno, but one thing for sure - I felt better. BigSmile2 Was contemplating if I should sleep (knowing that I’ll be late if I do sleep at this time!) or go have a darn early breakfast. Nay, but then again, there’s in fact, nothing else to do already! laughroll No lah, actually I remembered there’s badminton later in the evening. I’ll need the rest. So, ok lor! Went to sleep dreaming of Mcdonald’s stinger - musical_notes_bubbling_sm_nwm“Becuz of you… The sun will always shine into my life… lah lah lah~” laughroll 

flow6a4“Slip of the tongue is no fault of the mind… Or is it the other way around?”pic05996

Woke up late as can be! Greeted Mum with “I’M SO HUNGRY!” when about to race off. Quickly, she fumbled over the margarine and bread. Pushed the sandwhich into my hands with “EAT AS YOU GO”. Left house at 0900hrs when I should already be seated at my desk!

flow6a4“T.L.C.”flow6a4

So folks, that’s how I got breakfast this morning. Hmmm, wonder if it will be the same menu tomorrow morning… Think I better have a word with Mum later. L-O-L And for those of you who managed to read this entire post, WELL DONE! LOL

Quote: “Be willing to lose a battle, in order to win a war.” ~ Sun Tze (I think?) laughroll

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Tuesday, June 21, 2005

Come What May

Strangely, it has laid hidden at the back of my mind all this while.

Today, someone mentioned these 3 words.

Strangely, I found it extremely familiar.

 He meant it to be part of his speech to his companion.

But strangely, I found it extremely familiar.

Then I realised… It was once dedicated to me…

“I will love you until my dying day…”

THE MOST BEAUTIFUL LOVE SONG EVER.

Never knew I could feel like this
Like I’ve never seen the sky before
Want to vanish inside your kiss
Every day I love you more and more
Listen to my heart, can you hear it sing?
Telling me to give you everything
Seasons may change, winter to spring
But I love you until the end of time

Come what may
Come what may
I will love you until my dying day

Suddenly the world seems such a perfect place
Suddenly it moves with such a perfect grace
Suddenly my life doesn’t seem such a waste
It all revolves around you
And there’s no mountain too high
No river too wide
Sing out this song and I’ll be there by your side
Storm clouds may gather,
And stars may collide
But I love you (I love you)
Until the end of time(until the end of time)

Come what may
Come what may
I will love you until my dying day

Oh, come what may, come what may
I will love you, Oh I will love you
Suddenly the world seems such a perfect place

Come what may
Come what may
I will love you until my dying day

~ Nicole Kidman & Ewan Mcgregor ~

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Saturday, June 18, 2005

Again!?!

Seems like the virus has taken a liking for my throat. Felt my whole throat burning up. This is not good. Can feel the thick greenish globules in my lungs, reluctant to be thrown out.

For goodness sake! I just caught it last month and now it’s back again! What is going on!? cry3

Hmmm, looks like I’ve really been “working too hard”. Now, I’m like coughing SUPER HARD too. Each cough seems like my whole throat is crackin’ up. Wonder if I’ll cough out BLOOD again this time? *Yucks!*

Oh C’mon! I have a wedding dinner to attend tomorrow! Can’t afford to fall sick now!? And great, I have been warned to stay away from chilli! How can!? I love spicy food! This is sick!

And there’s also the upcoming BBQ , I can’t afford to miss that too! It’s been ages since I reload those BBQ stint from Secondary School days! Only this time it’s with all the fun folks from ERC! Not gonna miss that in a million years! 

Perhaps I should just “use poison to cure poison”.

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Friday, June 17, 2005

Wrecked M.E. HAIYA…!

 

Everything in the home desktop has been wiped out with the crash, as it now lays as dummy on the table-top.


What a way to spend my leave.

Initial plan was to sleep in. Who knows my sis woke me up around 1100++ hrs and asked if I “did anything” to our 4-yr-old desktop at home.

“I didn’t touch it for what seems like eons.” I murmured in my sleep-mode. Can’t be bothered with her mumbles as she exited from my room.

That does it. It’s the same-o-mess again they have left me. My sleep has been disrupted. I woke up with bad cough (just got it today it seemed), went to the stagnant com, on it and there it is, an unfamiliar desktop setting. Norton Anti-virus has been disabled and can’t activate or enabled it.

When was the last time you access it? About 5 days ago.

Did you update the anti-virus definitions list? No.

Did u accidentally format the entire C drive? Not that I remember.

Did mom touch this baby recently (she always does that “I am the computer explorer adventure” thingy and left me with messes)? I don’t think so.

Most likely a virus. A fair chance of it formatting the C drive too.

Looks like mom’s gonna scream her head off tonite. Am thinking of replacing the com for a while already… Hopeless wreck, though it spelt Pentium 4, works like a Pentium 3.

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Wednesday, June 15, 2005

My Best Guy-Fren, Brother, Close Like Family! :)

One of my favourites - Angelina Jolie!

   

Brother Lukey and I have been planning this since last week, just like the badminton session last evening. Simply Gorgeous Movie (except for the panning camera that leaves me with a headache!)


Yoz! Had a great day today! Woke up at 1100+ hrs on a WEEKDAY! Nearly overslept and missed the appointment with Brother Lukey! *Oops* We planned to catch the show, then he heads off for his table-tennis while I joined my “gang” at the Tampines Sports Hall thereafter.

Introduced my dear fren, brother to the ”gang” and also to Coach Hassan. Well, guess he didn’t go for “ping pong” after all! You see, “HIS stomach wasn’t feeling fantastic today.” It’s the stomach-send-signal-to-the-buttock thingy… So, er… *Hehe*

Eh Lukey, don’t forget our pool challenge hey? I think you’ll most prob lose 6-7 again leh! Hahaha…

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Nice? ;p

Rob Thomas - “Lonely No More”

My sister said it’s just another song of repeated lyrics. Hmmm… I tend to agree! Hahaha…


Now it seems to me
That you know just what to say
Words are only words
Can you show me something else?
Can you swear to me that you’ll always be this way?
Show me how you feel
More than ever baby

I don’t wanna be lonely no more
I don’t wanna have to pay for this
I don’t want to know the lover at my door,
Is just another heartache on my list

I don’t wanna be angry no more
You know I could never stand for this
So when you tell me that you love me, know for sure
I don’t want to be lonely anymore

Now it’s hard for me with my heart still on the mend
Open up to me, like you do your girlfriends
And you sing to me and it’s harmony
Girl, what you do to me is everything
Make me say anything; just to get you back again
Why can’t we just try?

I don’t wanna be lonely no more
I don’t wanna have to pay for this
I don’t want to know the lover at my door,
Is just another heartache on my list

I don’t wanna be angry no more
You know I could never stand for this
So when you tell me that you love me, know for sure
I don’t want to be lonely anymore

What if I was good to you, what if you were good to me?
What if I could hold you ’til I feel you move inside of me
What if it was paradise, and what if we were symphonies?
What if I gave all my life to find some way to stand beside you?

I don’t wanna be lonely no more
I don’t wanna have to pay for this
I don’t want to know the lover at my door
Is just another heartache on my list

I don’t wanna be angry no more
But you know I could never stand for this
So when you tell me that you love me, know for sure
I don’t want to be lonely anymore

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Sunday, June 12, 2005

Shackodelic Sunday!

FER WAS HERE - 12/06/2005, 1300-1500+ hrs.

Hmmm… As usual, I was late for the badminton training. Woke up at 7am sharp, man! Darted into the bathroom as fast as possible and turned on the shower (Time to wake up!). *Brrr…* Just then, inspiration splattered me again (I always think better when bathing!)… Since I can’t make it for the training that usually starts with a jog around the Sports Hall, why don’t I jogged to the Sports Hall from home!? ONZ AH! Quickly got my act together, packed my gears ready and zipped outta house! Along the way to the lift, trying to stretch my muscles as much as possible, do as much warm-up as possible. Too bad I had to share the lift with an uncle (nowadays uncles all wake up so early leh… 7+ am in the morning leh…), otherwise I could have done some “Matrix” stretchings in the lift! L-O-L

Don’t play play hor, I really jogged to the Sports Hall! spineyes Pai Say. Coach Hassan was at the main entrance when I reached. *Oops* BLUSH3.GIF Oh well, better late than never! Finally, the training started. Coach Hassan really put in effort to want to train me. I can feel it. *psychic power* laughroll

The jog really did some good. I don’t feel so stiff while playing the games (though I still lost). I’m thinking of jogging to the Sports Hall from home (like this morning) + 1 round around it (with my gears) for next Sunday’s training! spineyes

 Oh, BY THE WAY… Looks what Coach Hassan got me! Cotton shirts for a TRUE BADMINTON PLAYER! LOL Originally, I only asked for 1. But then again, he was kind enuf to get 2 real nice ones for me. Really appreciate it. pic05996

Well, that was not all. Dunno what’s gotten into me today. After 3 hours of training, I’m still feeling energetic. So, I joined Steph, Tiff, Brother Ah Liang & Da Sao for another round of badminton @ Punggol CC @ 1300hrs. First time meeting Da Sao (Brother Ah Liang’s wifey). She very humourous and sporting leh! Definitely not like the other young mothers I’ve seen. When Brother Ah Liang and Da Sao speak, for a moment I can’t picture that Brother Ah Liang used to be shy and introvert last time. She must have influenced him quite a bit (until now sometimes a bit siao! *Ssshhh*). Such a wonderful couple! pic05996

After the game, I took the trusty Bus 27 from Hougang bus interchange. Pretty fast ride (I think). Either that or I dozed off too deeply on the bus. Lucky never drool. Erhm, and I don’t think I snored too lah hor? Hahaha… L-O-L  But I did remember spotting this funny direction signage before I lost consciousness! BANGKOK in Singapore?!?! BUANGKOK in Singlish?!?!? bigeyes Eh, anyone can tell me this word belongs to which language ah? Hmmm…Interesting things around here… And now I’m tired liao! L-O-L

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Saturday, June 11, 2005

Finito! (^.^)

 
1st Tuesday: We talked about The World
2nd Tuesday: We talked about Feeling Sorry for Yourself
3rd Tuesday: We talked about Regrets
4th Tuesday: We talked about Death
5th Tuesday: We talked about Family
6th Tuesday: We talked about Emotions
7th Tuesday: We talked about The Fear of Ageing
8th Tuesday: We talked about Money
9th Tuesday: We talked about How Love Goes On
10th Tuesday: We talked about Marriage
11th Tuesday: We talked about Our Culture
12th Tuesday: We talked about Forgiveness
13th Tuesday: We talked about The Perfect Day
14th Tuesday: We say Goodbye
 
 

 

Hey~!

Think I can do this forever? Nay, I finished it! Good book. From a real-life story. Kinda sad setting, but marvellous facts of life. Some anedotes that struck me from the respective “Tuesdays” are:

 
The World
“The most important thing in life is to give out love, and to let it come in; We think we don’t deserve love, we think if we let it in we’ll become too soft. But, love is the only rational act.”
 
Feeling Sorry for Yourself
“I don’t allow myself any more self-pity than that. A little each morning, a few tears, and that’s all. It’s only horrible if you see it that way.”
 
“Sometimes you cannot believe what you see, you have to believe what you feel. And if you are ever going to have other people trust you, you must feel that you can trust them too-even when you’re in the dark. Even when you’re falling.”
 
Regrets
“Learn how to die, and you learn how to live.”
 
Family
“This is part of what a family is about, not just love, but letting others know there’s someone who is watching out for them. Knowing that your family will be there watching out for you. Nothing else will give you that. Not money, not fame… Not work.”
 
Emotions
“Learn to detach… Don’t cling to things, because everything is impermanent. Detachment doesn’t mean you don’t let the experience penetrate you. On the contrary, you let it penetrate you fully. That’s how you are able to leave it.”
 
The Fear of Ageing
“You have to find what’s good and true and beautiful in your life as it is now. Looking back makes you competitive. And, age is not a competitive issue.”
 
Money
“Do the kinds of things that come from the heart. When you do, you won’t be dissatisfied, you won’t be envious, you won’t be longing for somebody else’s things. On the contrary, you’ll be overwhelmed with what comes back.”
 
“Each night, when I go to sleep, I die. And the next morning, when I woke up, I am reborn.”
~ Mahatma Ghandi ~
 
How Love Goes On
“When you’re in bed, you’re dead.”
 
“Do you ever hear my voice sometimes when you’re back home? When you’re all alone? Maybe on the plane? Maybe in your car? Then you will not forget me after I’m gone. Think of my voice and I’ll be there. Love is how you stay alive, even after you’re gone.”
 
Marriage
“If you don’t respect the other person, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble. If you don’t know how to compromise, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble. If you can’t talk openly about what goes on between you, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble. And if you don’t have a common set of values in life, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble. And the biggest one of these values - Your belief in the importance of your marriage.”
 
“Love each other or perish”
 
Our Culture
“What’s wrong with being Number two?”
 
Forgiveness
“It’s not just other people we need to forgive. We also need to forgive ourselves. For the things we didn’t do.”
 
The Perfect Day
“Death ends a life, not a relationship.”
 
Goodbye
“A teacher affects eternity; he can never tell where his influence stops.”
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Wednesday, June 8, 2005

Goal!? Gold!? Go!!! ;-)

Hey Ya!

Today, Exel Recreation Club T-shirts are finally here! Cool, isn’t it? Too bad, folks. Only the Committee members get it. L-O-L

Originally, we wanted the T-shirt to be of RED HOT CHILLI RED. But unfortunately, the RED that the supplier showed us are all not to our expectation. Plus, some of the big bosses so superstitious. They felt that choosing RED means indicating our company is in the RED (Going Downhill)! spineyes So in the end, we chose BLACK. Oh! And BY THE WAY, the logos are all EMBROIDERED ones hor! Wa lao eh… Very Chioz leh! pic05996

Anyway, the official launch for Exel Recreation Club is supposed to be the day after tomorrow, 10 June. It has been postponed to 09 July - same day as the Exel Way Walk. Good news to us. At least we don’t have to rush into things. pic05996

Woo hoo! Go Rec Club, Go Rec Club, GO!!! Goal!? Gold!? Aiya! Just Go!

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